observe\d
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adding page day i realized
spaces of permission and private/hide in public
less about alone space
more about not observed/judged space
rp ness
not so much about needing the private space.. more about needing the mindset.. of being enough
hard to find/be that person(s) who can share a space w/o observing/judging ness
why we need tech w/o judgment (nonjudgmental expo labeling).. to facil the seeming chaos of a global detox leap/dance.. for (blank)’s sake..
ie: whatever for a year.. a legit sabbatical ish transition
otherwise we’ll keep perpetuating the same song.. the whac-a-mole-ing ness of sea world.. of not-us ness
not observed = sans any form of measuring, accounting, people telling other people what to do
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https://www.brainpickings.org/2019/02/06/etel-adnan-journey-to-mount-tamalpais/
I am transported outside my ordinary self and into the world as it could be when no one watches.
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not sure where to put this.. so putting it here – from seth’s generalizations work until they don’t: https://seths.blog/2020/12/generalizations-work-until-they-dont/
If we’re talking about groups of people, if we’re teaching, leading or trying to predict future behavior (all three are related) then we’re making a generalization.
Without generalizations, it’s almost impossible to begin to serve people.
thinking we have this all backwards.. not about serving people (puts us at advantage.. esp in context here ie: teaching, leading, predicting – all red flags we’re doing it/life wrong).. about listening deeper.. so selves/others/nature.. ie: holmgren indigenous law et al
begs a mech to undo our hierarchical listening
which in turn.. would keep us too fittingly preoccupied with things we can’t not do to keep up our addiction to ob/serving others
so thinking.. maybe generalizations never work
marsh label law et al
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only way to try/see the thing we’ve not yet tried: the unconditional part of left to own devices ness
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