brown belonging law
the opposite of belonging.. is fitting in
true belonging doesn’t require you to change who you are.. it requires you to be who you are.. and that’s vulnerable..
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*brown belonging law: the opposite of belonging.. is fitting in.. true belonging doesn’t require you to change who you are.. it requires you to be who you are.. and that’s vulnerable.. –Brené Brown
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deray (@deray) tweeted at 3:40 PM on Tue, Jun 18, 2019:
It’s like @BreneBrown was speaking directly to me in her Netflix special. I’ll be re-watching it tonight. If you haven’t seen it, you need to put it on your list.
(https://twitter.com/deray/status/1141098457530286085?s=03)
45 min – let me tell you what belonging is .. from the research..
brown belonging law:
the opposite of belonging.. is fitting in..
fitting in is assessing and acclimating.. here’s what i should say/be.. talk/dress like.. that’s fitting in
supposed to’s.. of school/work killing us
godin – the desire to fit in often overwhelms our curiosity
belonging is belonging to yourself first.. speaking your truth and never betraying yourself for other people.. true belonging doesn’t require you to change who you are.. it requires you to be who you are.. and that’s vulnerable..
beyond calling people to your campfire
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maté basic needs: authenticity & attachment
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