adding page after finishing Peter‘s community and Nathan‘s everything..  and writing to belong rev..

seeing participation and engaged ness as more of a voluntary compliance than of alive people.. ie: invited vs invented ness

when we seek participation or engagement.. generally means we have an agenda.. so not offering freedom.. even if it seems we are.. even if the (event/activity) seems good/friendly/nice.. like a host\ing a campfire

ie: from Nathan‘s everything:


why does it seem so hard to take that desire for genuine participation seriously..t

our senses for genuineness have been scrambled.. evidenced in our thinking that visible participation and/or engagement is a sign for it (genuineness)