regrets

#1 regret

 

 

 

 

top 5 – shared on deathbed:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

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as shared by Kathleen Taylor

as shared by Jane McGonigal

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15 things you’ll regret when you’re older

http://thepowerofideas.ideapod.com/30-things-youll-regret-youre-older/

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@brainpicker

Wonderful read on mortality and love brainpickings.org/2017/10/09/the

people near death, but also their caregivers. They found a depth of love within themselves that they didn’t know they had access to. They discovered a profound trust in the universe and the reliable goodness of humanity that never abandoned them

assume good

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mary oliver – on money

https://www.brainpickings.org/2016/10/12/mary-oliver-upstream-creativity-power-time/

The working, concentrating artist is an adult who refuses interruption from himself, who remains absorbed and energized in and by the work — who is thus responsible to the work… Serious interruptions to work, therefore, are never the inopportune, cheerful, even loving interruptions which come to us from another.

My responsibility is not to the ordinary, or the timely. It does not include mustard, or teeth. It does not extend to the lost button, or the beans in the pot. My loyalty is to the inner vision, whenever and howsoever it may arrive. If I have a meeting with you at three o’clock, rejoice if I am late. Rejoice even more if I do not arrive at all.

There is no other way work of artistic worth can be done. And the occasional success, to the striver, is worth everything. The most regretful people on earth are those who felt the call to creative work, who felt their own creative power restive and uprising, and gave to it neither power nor time.

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from David Whyte‘s consolations:

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regret is a short, evocative and achingly beautiful word;.. an elegy to lost possibilities even it its brief annunciation, it is also a rarity and almost never heard except where the speaker insists that they have none, that they are brave and forward looking and could not possibly imagine their life in any other way than the way it is..  to admit regret is to lose control not only of a difficult past but of the very story we tell about our present

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to regret fully is to appreciate how high the stakes are in even the average human life

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time together ness

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