gray play law

47 – play and social development – key freedom in play – is freedom to quit – something that people who design play – often don’t understand – if you’re not free to quit – bullying is possible, if you are free to quit – bullying is not possible

freedom to quit

essence of play is freedom – ie: free to quit, et al..
article from 2011

article from 2013 – the most basic freedom is freedom to quit


the last face (film)

it is not until you can’t leave that you can know



Peter Gray


gray bio design law

gray play deprived law

gray research law

the it is me




bravery/permission to change mind/direction/quit

graeber and wengrow freedom law