my home – whatever i carried around inside me
the beauty of being surrounded by the foreign –
it slaps you awake
less about where you came from and more about where you are going
home isn’t just the place you happen to be born – it’s the place you become yourself
movement is only as good as the sense of stillness you can bring to it to put it into perspective
9:40 – ..3 days in silence, and something in him cooled down, and cleared out –
he found himself
the silence wasn’t an absence of noise, but a presence of energy
i did what is hardest for me to do usually – which is –
nothing at all
that man is poor not who has little but who hankers after more – seneca
only by stopping movement that you can see where to go
only by stepping out of life and the world that you can see what you most deeply care about and
find a home
movement is a fantastic privilege, …, but movement ultimately only has a meaning if you have a home to go back to, and home, in the end, is of course not just a place where you sleep, it’s –
a place where you stand.
the art of stillness tedsalonny 2014:
develop the most attentive eyes – by sitting still…
by going nowhere – in order to sit still long enough to find out what moves you most to recall where your truest happiness lies, and to realize that something making a living and making a life point in opposite directions
trip to korea – lasted 2 days… the learning from it – reflecting on it – has lasted 24 yrs
one of our greatest luxuries – the empty space
room to breathe
it’s the time i’ve spent going nowhere that’s going to sustain me.. allows you to bring stillness into the moment
something in us is crying out for the sense of intimacy and depth that we get from people like that who take the time and trouble to sit still
it’s only by stepping back and then further back and holding still that we can begin to see what the canvas means and to catch the larger picture. a few people do that for us by going nowhere.
in an age of acceleration.. nothing can be more exhilarating than going slow. in an age of distraction nothing is so luxurious as paying attention. in an age of constant movement nothing is so urgent as sitting still.
if you want to come back home, alive, full of fresh hope, in love with the world… you might want to try considering going nowhere.
Pico Iyer (born 1957) is a British-born essayist and novelist of Indian origin. He is the author of numerous books on crossing cultures including Video Night in Kathmandu, The Lady and the Monk and The Global Soul. An essayist for Time since 1986, he also publishes regularly in Harper’s, The New York Review of Books, The New York Times, and many other publications.
tedsummit 2016 – The beauty of what we’ll never know
the secret point of travel: to take a plunge.. to go inwardly/outwardly to places you’d never go otherwise.. to venture into uncertainty/ambiguity/fear..
at home.. it’s dangerously easy to assume we’re on top of things.. out in world.. you are reminded every moment that you’re not.. everywhere people wish to be settled.. emerson: only as far as we’re unsettled..is there any hope for us
at some point .. knowledge gives out.. and that is the moment your life is truly decided…ie: fall in love.. lose a friend.. lights go out.. then.. is when you find out who you are..
i don’t believe that ignorance is bliss
when a mathematician tells me.. -3x -3 makes nine.. that’s a kind of logic that feels like trust
the opp of knowledge isn’t always ignorance.. could be wonder/possibility.. i’ve found.. it’s the things i don’t know that life me up more.. brought me closer to everyone around me
the one thing daili lama said that gave people reassurance/confidence.. was.. i don’t know..
the daniel khannamen.. we are always much more confident of what we think we know than what we should be.. we have an unlimited ability to ignore our ignorance..
most of time..we’re in the dark.. and that’s where real intimacy lies..
adam and eve.. never die if eating from tree of life.. but as soon as ate from knowledge of good/evil..
when i was a kid.. i knew it all.. underneath.. something i couldn’t understand.. so moved me.. that i decided to go live in japan.. now that i’ve been there for 28 yrs.. i couldn’t tell you much at all about my adopted home.. which means it’s open to new discoveries…
knowledge is a priceless gift .. but the illusion of knowledge can be more dangerous than ignorance.. ie: thinking you know lover/enemy.. more treacherous than acknowledging you’ll never know them..
one thing i’ve learned.. transformation comes when i’m not in charge..
first law of travel/life: you’re only as strong as your readiness to surrender..
in the end.. being human much more important than being fully in the know..
Going nowhere, as Cohen described it, was the grand adventure that makes sense of everywhere else.