2 needs & a cure
[from a qr mechanism]
Gabor adds that natural attachment is generally cut off when we send our kids to school at 5. we, in essence, tell them to find attachment within their peers. then when they are teens we question why they listen to peers more than us. he says that misplaced attachment, is the main thing we seek after the rest of our lives. most often – selling out our own authenticity, who we really are, in order to find someone who will like/bond with us.
Then suddenly I stopped being lonely. It was too difficult for me to keep being lonely. So I started being curious.
When other people became interesting to me, the world unraveled like a ball of string attached to a soaring kite.
In order to ask questions I had to stop caring what people thought of me. The mask fell away and it didn’t even look like me.
This took practice.
The more curious I got, the less lonely I was. The more “question marks” I sincerely asked, the more everything became a party.